Your friends can tell you anything they want, but if you are not ready to decide, you’re not ready.
Let’s talk about it. Visit Pathways Clinic today to discuss your pregnancy in a confidential, safe space. You deserve to make a decision you feel comfortable making. We can provide early pregnancy services and support.
Keep reading for tips on navigating this situation with your friends.
It’s Your Decision
An abortion is a serious, life-altering decision that will change the course of your future.
Resist any pressure from friends and family who want to make the decision for you. It may feel easy to them, but that’s because they aren’t in your shoes. They may not know how difficult this decision is for you since they can’t read your mind or know your emotions.
Ask for Space and Respect
Pressure in any form is not love; it’s control. They may say they want what’s best for you, but that doesn’t mean pressuring you is okay. They can have calm, honest conversations with you without trying to steer you in a direction.
Ask your friends, family, and even your partner to respect that this decision impacts you the most. Then, ask for space or time. You may not have a ton of time to decide, but even an evening of quiet can help you think without their voices in your ear.
Talk When You’re Ready
Let them know that you’re willing to talk with them once you do your own research and think about what you truly want.
You don’t need to shut out your friends and family. They are so important right now, and you’ll need their support no matter what you decide. However, setting this boundary can make sure you are making a decision that’s entirely yours.
We’re Here to Help
You’re never alone when the Pathways Clinic team is by your side. Schedule a confidential, free-of-charge appointment to talk and confirm your pregnancy today.