Making a decision about your unexpected pregnancy can feel overwhelming. You have so much to consider, from your current living situation to where you see your future headed.
Regardless of your circumstances, you have three options: abortion, parenting, and adoption. Taking time to think through each and making an informed choice can help build your confidence, especially when talking with friends and family.
Visit Pathways Clinic today for free-of-charge and confidential early pregnancy services and to receive information on every option. We’re here to help.
Consider the Reasons for Their Pressure
It takes a lot of courage to tell your family and friends about your pregnancy situation. You may have wondered how they would react or feared they would pressure you into a certain choice.
However, they know now, and if they are pressuring you, it could be for several reasons.
- Expectations: Maybe they envisioned a different future for you.
- Fears: They worry or have concerns about your decision and how it will impact you.
- Cares: They love and care about you and want you to make the right choice.
- Self-Focus: They think about how your choice will affect them.
If you’re experiencing pressure, first try to get to the heart of why your friends and family are pressuring you. It will help you better understand them and see where they are coming from. Each person may have a different reason for their opinion.
While you do not want to shut down your friends and family, who may be your main support system, listening to them and their thoughts is important, even if you disagree.
Communicating Your Role
Your pregnancy decision is yours to make. After listening to your loved ones’ thoughts and feelings, communicate that you have the primary role in decision-making.
Whatever you choose will impact you the most. You will be the one to carry the decision with you and the future that unfolds after.
Mutual respect is essential to any relationship. By communicating clearly with your friends and family, they should understand why it’s so crucial that you have the final word.
What If It’s Not That Simple?
We understand that listening, communicating, and gaining mutual respect and understanding may not work for every woman. These steps may not be possible in an abusive situation.
If you are facing pressure to make a decision you aren’t comfortable with and are afraid of what might happen if you do not follow through, it’s time to seek help. The National Domestic Violence Hotline can help you find safety so you can make your own choices without fear.
Talk in a Safe Space
Stepping away from a high-pressure situation can give you time to breathe and feel relieved. Visit Pathways Clinic to receive early, free-of-charge pregnancy support in a calm, safe atmosphere.
We’re here to help you navigate even the most challenging situations with professional services and pregnancy support. Schedule your free-of-charge appointment today.