Your friends and family know you better than anyone. They’ve seen you at many ages and stages and have been with you through ups and downs. Because of this closeness, they may also think they know what’s best for you.
But what happens when your idea of what’s best for you clashes with theirs? If your friends and family are pressuring you into an abortion decision, we’re sorry. This can be a hard position to be in, especially if you disagree.
Keep reading to learn what you can do when you feel pressured into an abortion.
Let Them Speak
Your friends and family may provide unsolicited advice and opinions about your pregnancy decision or tell you what to do. Remind yourself that there’s no harm in letting them talk.
It’s easy to get angry, upset, or frustrated, especially if you feel like they are trying to make your decision for you, but the words themselves don’t have power over you. It may be best to let them share their thoughts without escalating into an argument.
Give Yourself Space
At the same time, it’s hard to think clearly when loud, opinionated voices surround you. Give yourself time and space to reflect on your situation, options, and what you want for your future. The decision is yours alone to make, no matter what others say.
Share Your Decision When the Time Is Right
Once you make a pregnancy decision, you can calmly share it with your friends and family and explain your thought process.
While they could be unhappy or disappointed, you took another direction; that’s okay. It’s not their life; it’s yours. It’s crucial to your emotional and mental health to make your own choice confidently.
The Exception: Coercion
The above steps will not apply if you are the victim of domestic abuse. It’s illegal for your friends or family to coerce or force you to have an abortion. If you need immediate help, please reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline or call 800.799.SAFE (7233).
Are You Still Weighing Your Options?
Visit Pathways Clinic in Washougal, Washington, for confidential support in a safe space. We can provide free-of-charge early pregnancy services that will reveal all your options and share helpful information.
We’re here to support you. Schedule your appointment today.